You can see all the lectionary readings for the Proper 18, Year A by clicking here. I have chosen to discuss the passage from the Gospel of Matthew.
This is some very practical teaching about community from Jesus. The Kingdom of God is all about being in relationship with God and with others.
Here’s a great breakdown from a lesson found on the Episcopal Digital Network:
Remember the steps to Conflict Resolution:
- Step One: Go directly to that person.
- Remember the Greatest Commandment – Love the Lord your God and Love your Neighbor as yourself.
- The Golden Rule – treat others how you would want to be treated.
- Be Respectful and responsible.
- Step Two: Bring along another person or two.
- Step Three: Bring the situation to the church (or this may mean to your school, work, or community depending on the situation.)
- Step Four: Walk away from the situation and take a breather. Continue tocommunicate with the person and when they are ready to come into the community, welcome them.
We can use this kind of advice in a lot of situations, not only within church. I have been in situations where someone had a problem with me or what I was doing, but instead of coming to me with their concern, they seemed to tell other people and it got back to me. I admittedly can think of situations where I complained about another person’s actions without confronting them about it. It’s good to remember that the best choice is to talk directly to the person first (unless they are physically abusive and you need protection from them–in which case you should seek help and not confront someone alone).
The Kingdom of God is the community of God–people working together to love their neighbors as themselves.